Thanks for taking the time to read my post ... I struggled with where exactly to post this but since a long term relationship is my goal I posted here, though I am completely open to making new friends as well. About me: I'm a divorced single mother. My world revolves around my son. I spend more time with my nose in a book than I do doing anything else when my son is with his dad. I enjoy being outside. I enjoy watching movies and snuggling on the couch. I love to listen to music of all types. I have a job that I enjoy. I have my own place and a car. I don't need a man to support me or take care of me and my son. I do however want a man to share things with at the end of the day. Someone that is willing to accept all that is "imperfect" about me right along with all the things that are "perfect". Someone who can put up with being with a complete bibliophile and maybe even indulge with me from time to time or at least pretend to be interested when I tell you how wonderful the book I'm reading is or how poorly written and fabulously terrible. Someone who isn't afraid to get a little dirty and play outside. Someone who can appreciate my love of loud trucks and fast cars. I'm just a simple girl with simple desires who never asks of others what shes not willing to put forth herself. About my "ideal" match: Someone who is intelligent, has their priorities in order, and isn't married, separated, or just out of a relationship. Be okay with kids, no you will not be meeting my son right away, but he is obviously a huge part of my life since he lives with me 5days out of the week. Physical attraction is important if more than friendship is going to come of this, I don't have a type really, but I do ask that you not look like you just rolled in off a week stint as a homeless person. I expect to take things slowly, I don't intend to jump straight into a LTR situation, but that is ultimately my goal. That being said, I have no interest in a sexual encounter or a FWB if I did I'd have posted elsewhere on this site. In standard CL fashion your pic gets mine, you wont be disappointed, but you wont get mine without sending yours first. Likewise I prefer someone close to my own age (27-40). And if you're going to flag my post as retaliation for rejection don't bother responding.
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